from Cascio -s book

GIRLFRIENDS:)


Sometimes Michael invited members of his fan clubs to Neverland, and he occasionally formed a special relationship with one of the women. One time I was driving Michael into town. Someone was next to me in the passenger seat of the Bentley, and Michael was in the backseat, kissing one of his fans.

"Easy back there," I said. "Relax, calm down."

"Just keep driving," Michael said in a joking way. "Don't worry about it, just keep driving."

Michael's dalliances with fans were infrequent and discreet, but they were hardly unheard of. He tended to like tall, slender women whom I'd describe as nerdy in a sexy way. Once, in Lodon, I was in his suite when he brought a friend he'd known for years into his bedroom. They were in there for about an hour, and when he emerged, his pants were unbuttoned. I smirked at him.

"Shut up, Frank," he said, smiling sheepishly. The woman, equally sheepish, said goodbye and left.

Around this time, Michael had another friend - I'll call her Emily - who visited the ranch regularly. She was a nice, cute girl, slender, with brown hair, in her early to midthirties. Emily didn't want or need anything from Michael. They just liked spending time together - talking, walking around, hanging out in his bedroom. It was a romantic relationship, but as far as I know, he didn't tell anyone about Emily but me. Michael kept her a secret - she didn't stay in his room because he didn't want her to be seen coming out in the morning - and even I didn't see real evidence of the romance. That's how I knew he was telling the truth. He wouldn't have been so secretive if he hadn't had something to hide. That was the longest relationship I saw Michael have: Emily was at the ranch frequently over the course of about a year. 

The question as to whether Michael was intimate with Debbie Rowe came up often. People seemed to think that they could make sense of Michael if they could only unravel the mystery of his relationships with women, but Michael was his own man. There were no simple answers. I know he was sexually intimate with Lisa Marie when they were together - he told me so. With Emily, to be honest, I'm not sure, but I know in her he found a companion, a friend.




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He does say he married Lisa Marie because he wanted to please the Arabs, he says that was what Mike told him as a kid. They hadn't even known they were dating.

But Frank says his father Dominic thought Mike had married her because he wanted to have kids with her.

Frank says Michael adored her and her kids.

Talks about meeting them together, blah blah, Frank says he thought Lisa was sexy

Says Michael would say Lisa would fight and Mike would just change the subject, he hated confrontation

Says Michael and Lisa loved and respected each other, Michael wasn't emotionally available to Lisa, says Mike wasn't cut out for compromise of marriage.

Six months after Lisa's divorce Mike told him Debbie was gonna make him a father, it was a gift, blah blah.

A road trip in 1996... making a "mind map" (collage of things they wanted to achieve) on Mike's list at the top for girls he wanted to date was Princess Diana...

I don't like the tone of this book. He does write about Mike like JRT or Roger Friedman. My opinion so far is not worth the money...

Yeah, he told them as the news of their marriage was about o break. He says about Mike's explanation, "Or so Michael's story went. My father, who had an adult's perspective on the whole affair, saw a simpler scenario. He believed that Michael wanted to be a father and hoped that he would have children with Lisa Marie." He makes it sound like a real relationship though But he makes it sound like it was entirely Michael's fault for the relationship not going well. He says that apparently Lisa and Mike stayed close, but he didn't see her again after their divorce.

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I've seen some passing references to Michael loving nature, pointing out beautiful things in nature, getting Frank into meditation, showing his kids nature at Neverland, loving to read, getting all the kids he'd be around books as gifts... So far though, nothing I've read has made me feel positive. Even the nice things aren't positive. The talk of his relationships felt backhanded to me, and I hate that he said MJ married LMP because of Arabs and he says things like "or his version of being in love" it's just so backhanded, it makes him sound the way the media think of him as, someone incapable of love.

Madonna :

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The only thing Frank gave quote is about Madona. I believe his said MJ said this story when they visited MJ in 93. Because Frank said although he was young but already girl crazy. The story went like this: Madonna invite MJ to accompany her to her hotel room. She asked me to join her in her bedroom and I was so shy. I didn't know what to do. Frank told MJ you should have gone for it. I would have done anything for one night with Madonna.

Lisa Marie :

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Frank said they all didn't know MJ was falling in love. One spring night 1994, MJ's people came in and said the news was going to break. MJ married LMP. Frank was shock and asked what you got married? Talked about J5 and Elvis bring LMP seeing the show story. MJ married LMP before he came to MJ. All of them didn't know it. Frank's parents asked why and MJ can't answer it. Said MJ kept various parts of life separate from one another. MJ told them he made decision for business reason because of Prince Al-Waleed bin Talal. The Prince believe that it can restore MJ's image. This is what MJ told him. Frank's father think MJ want to be father and have kids with LMP. Frank gave multiple reason why LMP was best choice for MJ. MJ told him he saw lots of bad thing happened in his brothers' marriage. Eddie and him were sent back home before the news broke. In August, whole family met LMP. LMP tried to find a place in the situation. They saw her again during Christmas 1994. MJ and LMP gave him great Christmas gift. Said LMP was more comfortable around them. He no longer stay in MJ's room because of LMP. Said LMP didn't understand all different sides of MJ. Said MJ didn't like confrontation. MJ told him that LMP like to fight. Quote: when she complains, I start clapping my hands and smiling. it would makes her stop and I ask her if she done arguing. Frank felt thing didn't go well. Said both MJ and LMP were the center of the world and it's hard for them to take care of each other. He think LMP tried hard enough but it's hard for her to find her role in MJ's complicated world. MJ and LMP finally fall apart. MJ claimed one of the reason is LMP was jealous of the Cascios because MJ prefer to spend more time with the Cascios than her. Frank said he didn't see the evidence and don't believe his family was the reason. He said they were part of the routine of MJ's life that MJ unwilling to change. On the other hand, MJ wanted to be father. He wanted to adopt kid from Romania but LMP didn't like it. He wanted to have kids with LMP but LMP was not ready. MJ didn't want to change his life because of LMP and wasn't willing to learn to be in a relationship. Frank said when MJ and LMP split, MJ seemed sad but not heartbroken. Said MJ and LMP loved and respected each other. He was a little relieved when MJ divorced LMP because he had his friend back.

Debbie

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Frank says he knew how much Michael wanted to have kids and he wasn't surprised when he told him about Debbie being pregnant. He says Michael was the happiest he has seen. He says Debbie's intentions were true - that she wanted to give Michael the kids he wanted and he was grateful to her for making him a father. Frank says there was no romance between them but they were friends that talked and hanged with each other and got a long just fine. Prince Al-Waleed bin Talal saying "perhaps you should marry her" is mentioned and also Frank mentions Michael didn't act like the marriage was a big deal and also said "she wants nothing from me. all she cares about his her horses and besides she's Prince's mother."

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1999 time period:

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Every so often, fans were allowed to visit Michael in his hotel room. We called the girls fish - because there were lots of fish in the sea - and we called the most aggressive ones barracudas. We'd fight over hem, joking about which girl was for him and who was for me. I'd say, "Let's be realistic, you're just the decoy." That's why on the Invincible album notes when he thanked me he wrote, "Stop fishing." Over the years, Michael grew close to some fans and occasionally had casual girlfriends, but he was a married man, so nothing untoward happened. About Debbie : Quote: MJ and Frank went road trip in europe during summer 1996. MJ went to NJ first. When they played video game. MJ told Frank that he is going to be father. Frank was shocked. MJ said Debbie is giving me greatest gift in the world. MJ alslo played him a tape that Debbie said Michale I want to make u a father. This is my present for u. I don't want anything from u. If the kids ask where their mother is, tell them I died in a car accident. MJ trusted Debbie. Frank said lots of good words of Debbie. Talked about how MJ prepared to be father reading all the parenting books etc. MJ would record himself reading story so Debbie can put earphones to her belly. MJ also would tape himeslef saying Prince I am ur father I love u, u are wonderful etc. Frank said in the past, he was worry that MJ would forget them if MJ had his own family. MJ assured him in the past that they were his family. MJ married Debbie. He was shocked again and asked why? after the whole experience with LMP, he can't understand why MJ want to do it again. MJ gave him the story again that Prince Al- Waleed bin Talal wanted him to be married when he knew MJ going to have a kid. Frank said it's MJ's story. MJ also downplay the importance of the marriage. Said: Debbie doesn't want anything from me. All she cares about are her horses. Besides she's prince's mother. MJ called his family from cars when he took Prince home. MJ was still touring and he put Prince in Paris. MJ would use private jet to fly back to Paris after the show. As long as MJ was not working he was with Prince. Other Cascios family went to keep company with MJ during the HIStory tour. Eddie and Frank can't go due to school, they went to visit once. Talked about how MJ raise Prince since kid. Omar's mom and Grace were nannies. MJ told him the truth not long after meeting Omer that Omer is not MJ's son. MJ gave him the explanation that he need to show Saudi Prince that he had a family. Frank said how a illegitimate son boosted MJ's image with Prince? but he said it's MJ's story and said at least MJ consistent in the explanation for LMP, Debbie, and Omer. Omer's family start to celebrate holidays with them. His nickname for Omer is little Monkey. Said MJ and Debbie get alone really well and spoke on the phone. Said no romance between them but MJ loved Debbie as a friend. MJ wanted another child so 2 of them can grow up together. That Christmas, Frank's entire family went to neverland. Omer was there and Debbie also went there. Said MJ let people believe that he had been intimate with Debbie but told Frank it's not the case. The most important thing is that Debbie give him the greatest gift. Said MJ is great father. Explain why MJ needed to cover his kids in public. Said MJ's kids were most intelligent and well behaved kids he ever met. Said MJ finally find happiness since 93. Said MJ do have fun after 93 before having kids. However, MJ was in a constant state of depression. If MJ was alone he would forgot to eat or slept through the afternoon. He said MJ have rare talent but live hard lives since childhood. MJ didn't do recreational drugs or party recklessly. MJ didn't act out his pain in the public but he did suffer. It all changed when he became a father. Those kids bring energy and enthusiasm to him. MJ became the happiest person in the world.